Stop being a drama queen.

😩 ā€œThere’s not anyone who noticesā€ (but you actually do have people who smile at you…)

😩 ā€œI’m never going to find a husbandā€ (you don’t *actually* believe it, but your wounds are telling you that since you don’t see any of the details – how / when / who / etc. – that it’s not likely)

😩 ā€œI can’t find anything to wearā€ (but you literally have a closet, and a dresser, full of clothes – you just don’t like how you feel in any of them)

😩 ā€œNo one ever invites me anywhereā€ (but you say that in front of people who actually have invited you places)

😩 ā€œThere’s literally no way to fix thisā€ (but really, you just don’t like the solutions that are available)

If you continue being a drama queen, no one is going to be able to take you at your word (including yourself). It alienates people.

If you continue being a drama queen, you’re going to be ruling a kingdom that’s lonely, pathetic, full of insecurities, and where joy thieves lurk around every corner.

If you continue being a drama queen, you’re going to miss out on the blessings that are right in front of you, right now!

So, stop being a drama queen.

You want to be noticed? Living a life that’s vibrant and positive will definitely get you noticed, and as a huge benefit, you’ll be able to drop the self-loathing that comes from being an avid attention seeker.

Start putting that energy towards looking for the blessings, and stop being a drama queen!

šŸ’‹ xx

Said with love from a former drama queen