FYI – If someone’s inviting you to compromise, you don’t have to accept the invitation đ
In fact, you have permission to walk away from the situation.
You donât need that kind of influence in your life â
âCause the thing is, even if youâre totally confident to refuse their invitation, if youâve communicated with them on more than one occasion that you have that boundary, and they continue asking you to cross it, are they really a friend or someone you can trust?
One thing Iâve learned over the years is that if someone you trust (who has your best interest at heart) disagrees with you or boundaries youâve set, they wonât just ask you to cross them.
đ If they can see that those âboundariesâ are actually unhealthy walls, they will investigate them with you, and invite you to look at where they came from. Then theyâll help you shift them into healthy boundaries.
Healthy people donât invite people to compromise.
We got into this more at my boundaries workshop, and Iâd sure love for you to get the replay.
These revelations and skills around setting (and holding to) boundaries have proved invaluable to me, and I believe they will for you as well!
Imagine if you could invest just $24, two hours, and a little bit of practice, and then have these skills dialed in for immediate and future use?
You already know how much time youâve WASTED because you didnât have boundaries:
⎠doing thing you didnât want to do đ
⎠going on dates you didnât want to go on đŹ
⎠agreeing to things you had no intention of following through on đ
⎠hemming and hawing trying to figure out how to respond đ
⎠getting over the shame of past regrets đ¤Śââď¸
Goodness knows youâre not alone!!
But goodness also knows that you donât need to be stuck in this cycle any longer đ
This is your chance to grab the replay of my BOUNDARIES workshop and get out of this once and for all. Grab the replay right here.
