FYI – If someone’s inviting you to compromise, you don’t have to accept the invitation đ In fact, you have permission to walk away from the situation. You donât need that kind of influence in your life â âCause the thing is, even if youâre …
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Standing on convictions is uncomfortable!
Picture this. Itâs my birthday month (February), and everyone knows that I celebrate the whole month (and then some) đ„ł With that in mind, this particular gentleman (who, for reference, was 20+ years older than me), said he wanted to take me to lunch for …
Boundaries vs. unhealthy walls
Iâve had several conversations lately with ladies, and as Iâve been praying for them, Iâve seen visions of them PLAYING in freedom (i.e. skipping, swinging on the monkey bars, etc.) đ What Iâve realized is that, while there are plenty of âblame it on my …
Boundaries – you’re invited to have them
BOUNDARIES We all have them (some more intentionally than others), and we all have people who cross them (some more intentionally than others) đ Have you ever noticed that you donât even realize you have boundaries until theyâre crossed đŹ And then you get (understandably) …
Boundaries – where to start
So, you find yourself in a conversation youâd rather not be in. What do you do? Or maybe youâve wound up in a situation thatâs so out of alignment for you, and youâre going âhow did I get here?!â It may even be that youâre …
The power of Orthopedic Sandals
I had two different ladies in their 70s comment on my “orthopedic” sandals within the first 24 hours of having them. Yes, they both used that word to describe them. In the past, this would have absolutely crushed my confidence, and prevented me from ever …
Time vs. People
Itâs an interesting line to walk – people vs. time. Which one do you prioritize? One could argue either way, really. If youâre on a meeting with someone, and itâs scheduled for 30 minutes, and it runs over because you prioritized the person on the …
5 months later…
5 months..Lots can happen in a short period of time..đ„Revelationđ„Breakthroughđ„Frustrationđ„Growthđ„Tearsđ„Friendshipsđ„Goals hitđ„Inspiration.You can see new things about yourself that youâre excited about, and you can be faced with frustrations about yourself that youâre less-than-enthused by..For me, these last 5 months in the Pathfinders Apprenticeship has reminded …
Your next big step
These last 4 months. Let me tell you about how I survived them..Very simply put, itâs been God and friendships..And specifically, Iâve found immense value in a very particular mastermind Iâve been investing in these last 4 months. The Pathfinders Apprenticeship (@awakenpathfinderssd)..These last 4+ months …
The art of saying “NO” graciously and confidently
đ I wanted to say ânoâ but I was caught off guard, and I HATED disappointing people!.âRecipe for a very disappointing, and constantly heavy-feeling life..It looks like:đLiving for othersđMaking sure theyâre happyđTaking care of their needs.*and not in a selfless, generous, giving kind of way …