Y’all. We have to talk. This whole “deflecting compliments” thing is NOT a good look 🙅 If someone offers you a compliment, receive it, whether you believe it or not. …
Relationships

ENOUGH with the stalking
I don’t know who needs to hear this, but you need to STOP stalking your ex’s social media (…or their new girlfriend’s social media… or your new boyfriend’s ex’s social …

Apologies aren’t about saying “I’m sorry”
Apologies aren’t about saying “I’m sorry” – they’re about taking ownership for YOUR part in the dilemma that’s happening. 💥 I’m sorry that we even met!💥 I’m sorry you couldn’t …

Friday night with the sharks
Sometimes you need a night out with a girlfriend, enjoying frivolity, popcorn, and San Diego Sharks basketball. A couple of weeks ago I got to go out with my girl, …

What’s it like to be kissed in Texas?
What’s it like to be kissed in Texas? My freckles know the warmth of being kissed by the sunshine. My skin knows the grace of being kissed by the breeze. …

Get really good at celebrating others
I get it, friend. Deeply. You’re watching seemingly everyone else living in blessings you’ve been praying for, and experiencing miracles you’re believing for. And it’s not just one friend. It’s …

Time vs. People
It’s an interesting line to walk – people vs. time. Which one do you prioritize? One could argue either way, really. If you’re on a meeting with someone, and it’s …

You will never actually understand what they’re walking through
You will never actually understand what they’re walking through. 📌 You may understand pain.📌 You may understand loss.📌 You may understand hardship.📌 You may understand disappointment. But all of these …

Would they know if something was off in your life?
Every once in a while, I’m tempted to just check out – not respond to anyone’s messages (texts, emails, voice mails, socials, WhatsApp, Marco Polo, GroupMe, etc.) and live in …

Are you EMPOWERING them or ENABLING them?
Are you EMPOWERING them or ENABLING them? Oooh, the line can be so blurry-seeming sometimes, because in both cases, they truly need help, and you genuinely want to help. One …