SituationshipRelationshipFriendshipDatingshipWhatevershipAny kind of “-ship” As a lady who’s been in a variety of relationships – both healthy and total bummers – I can assure you that being single with standards is WAY more peaceful than being in any kind of “-ship” with compromise. I’ve been …
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Is staying friends a bad idea?
“Is staying friends a bad idea?” she asked. She’d been getting to know this man for a couple of months, and while he was a good man, and there were no glaring red flags, their faith wasn’t aligned. And while he respected her, and recognized …
Delete his number
I found myself wanting to text him SO bad! “Him” being a man I was interested in years ago. A man who’d never expressed any genuine interest, but who had provided some conversations here and there over the couple months we’d explored dating. And by …
Dreaming of a douche
Girls, I had a dream last night that I felt to share. It was about some guy (no one I know in real life). In this dream, he was everything douchey you can imagine ? ? playing the field – right in front of me? …
Gentlemen, this one’s for you
Gentlemen, this one’s for you. I went 2 stepping last weekend ? and was reminded of a few things (mostly related to dating ? but applicable elsewhere as well): ? It is SO appealing to have a man confidently approach and be clear with their …
High Standards
High standards. This is a touchy subject ? People tell me “your standards are way too high” and I just let them talk. Ladies, HAVE HIGH STANDARDS. Do you think anything is too hard for the Lord? You watch, and you’ll see, HE WILL COME …
If I were to write a book on dating…
Let’s preface this by saying – this is not at all how I imagined my dating story would go. And, since I’m still mid-story, with no idea how or when the ending will happen, we’re just going to take a peek at what’s transpired so …
Red Flags and then some
Reminiscing about some things I’ve walked through and overcome, and I have some thoughts. If 2021 Susan could share something with 2018 Susan (and other ladies), she’d say something to the tune of…. SINGLE LADIES, if his *ACTIONS* are not showing you honesty or healthy, …
Single Mix and Mingle Update
? About last night……well, it was fun! Tons of great people, lots of flowing conversation, and plenty of opportunities to connect with new friends..❓As for the question I’ve been getting all day today “Did you meet anyone last night?!” ? ((…..drum roll, please…..?)).? No..? I …
Single Mix and Mingle
You guys know that I am willing to be vulnerable in put myself out there, and tonight I am asking for your prayers .I have done the online dating thing, the matchmaking thing, the being set up thing, and even the speed dating thing …. and …