You can be single AND in a committed relationship at the same time đŸ„Ž Let me explain.

In a committed relationship, you’re willing to fight for it. Give up competing relationships for it. Lose sleep over it. Talk about it constantly. Everyone knows you’re in a relationship.

But it may not be with who you’re dreaming of
.

😡It’s with anger
towards your ex.

🙄It’s with bitterness
towards your boss.

â˜čIt’s with resentment
towards your parents.

đŸ€ŹIt’s with hatred
towards your life.

đŸ˜”It’s with hopelessness
towards your future.

đŸ„șIt’s with disappointment
towards your past.

😖It’s with frustration
towards yourself.

Any of these sound familiar? 🙉

If you’re single (AND in a committed relationship at the same time with any of the aforementioned), that committed relationship may be the reason you’re single đŸ€Ș Try that one on for size.

Maybe not. Being single doesn’t indicate something’s wrong 😎 But being single IS a great opportunity to really focus on growth and grace (which, in my personal opinion, is always a great choice when it comes to navigating through life).

It’s amazing to me how many people are COMMITTED to staying stuck in their past đŸ˜± Rehearsing the same stories. Reliving the same scenarios. Having the same conversations. Absolutely unwavering in their support of continuing in dysfunction, because they’re unsure of what it would be like to give it up.

đŸ€ź And even though it’s so unhealthy and toxic, it’s familiar
 which is so often more comfortable than change.

If you’re in a committed relationship, but wondering why you’re single, I’ll invite you to break up with toxic and focus on growth and grace.

Your HEALTHY committed relationship awaits đŸ„°