Girls, I had a dream last night that I felt to share. It was about some guy (no one I know in real life). In this dream, he was everything douchey you can imagine đ đ playing the field – right in front of međ …
relationships

My car turned 100,000 miles old today
My car turned 100,000 miles old today, and Iâve had her since she was 9 miles old đ„° Weâve traveled together (well, she traveled. I just sat there). Weâve laughed together (read: she was there while I laughed). Weâve cried together (I cried while she …

High Standards
High standards. This is a touchy subject đŹ People tell me âyour standards are way too highâ and I just let them talk. Ladies, HAVE HIGH STANDARDS. Do you think anything is too hard for the Lord? You watch, and youâll see, HE WILL COME …

You can be single and in a committed relationship at the same time
You can be single AND in a committed relationship at the same time đ„Ž Let me explain. In a committed relationship, youâre willing to fight for it. Give up competing relationships for it. Lose sleep over it. Talk about it constantly. Everyone knows youâre in …

Say it with me now
Yâall. We have to talk. This whole âdeflecting complimentsâ thing is NOT a good look đ If someone offers you a compliment, receive it, whether you believe it or not. They took time and effort to express it to you, when it would have been …

ENOUGH with the stalking
I donât know who needs to hear this, but you need to STOP stalking your exâs social media (…or their new girlfriendâs social media⊠or your new boyfriendâs exâs social media) account(s) and keeping tabs on what theyâre up to. STOP IT! It is only …

Apologies aren’t about saying “I’m sorry”
Apologies aren’t about saying “I’m sorry” – theyâre about taking ownership for YOUR part in the dilemma thatâs happening. đ„ Iâm sorry that we even met!đ„ Iâm sorry you couldnât control your temper!đ„ Iâm sorry that I ever took this lousy job!đ„ Iâm sorry for …

Get really good at celebrating others
I get it, friend. Deeply. Youâre watching seemingly everyone else living in blessings youâve been praying for, and experiencing miracles youâre believing for. And itâs not just one friend. Itâs like a good number of them at once. Itâs the job promotions. Itâs the engagements …

Are you EMPOWERING them or ENABLING them?
Are you EMPOWERING them or ENABLING them? Oooh, the line can be so blurry-seeming sometimes, because in both cases, they truly need help, and you genuinely want to help. One of the key differences though, is that they WANT help helping themselves. They may want …

Work FOR it, not against it
Iâve been studying marriage the last few years – learning what I can before I get to step into it. Not some crash course to cram for a test, but really soaking in and discovering the ins and outs, the ups the downs, the how …