You know you want help, but you’re not sure where to start. Sound familiar? If you are trying to figure out how to ask for help🤷 then this post is for you. I struggled with asking for help for a long time, so believe me, …
Growth and Grace Blog

Choosing love after pain
LADIES, here me loud and clear on this…I’ve had men break up with me. Ghost me. Hate me. Hit me. Stalk me. Cheat on me. Lie to me. Reject me. Turn away when I needed support. Take advantage of me. Deny the love I tried …

What is success, anyway?
What is success, anyway?.To SOME, I am NOT successful because:*I don’t have 7-figures in my bank account. *I’m 34 and single.*I depend on a God that they do not know.*I don’t have a laundry list of accolades to show off my accomplishments.*I live alone with …

Hot shopping tip
If you know me, you know that I love having a simple outfit with a statement piece (usually in the form of SHOES) and this one is no different This is a GREAT time to try new outfits from your wardrobe. Mix and match things you …

Making Big Moves
Come on an adventure with me, will you?! 🚲 It was 3 years ago on this exact day (March 29, 2017) that I pulled out of the driveway and started my drive down here, to move to San Diego, CA from Walla Walla, WA. My …

Permission Granted
Sayonara 👋 I’m going to be so NOT available for the next little bit as I recover from “too much people-ing” recently. To be transparent, as much as I LOVE people 💕 these last 2 weeks have had me in full blown “ON” mode as I’ve …

Clouds on a blue sky day
Today felt like a blue sky day 😍 Mostly. To be honest, I’m in *a mood* right now after having what felt like a super discouraging conversation with a few ladies I admire. . Here’s the thing. I’ve been on a high these last few …

Vulnerability at a mic
Y’all know I share some REAL stuff, but THIS IS THE MOST VULNERABLE-FEELING POST I HAVE *EVER* DONE!!! And here’s why. Sometimes leading by example SUCKS in the moment, because in order to be real, you gotta actually DO THE THING. Which means, sometimes (if …

Dear, Husband (March 8, 2020 edition)
Playing around on set of our @emerge.men photobooth, leftover from (what I hear was) a pheno-MEN-al Emerge men’s night 💪💪 Dear future husband 💖 I’m praying for you. Cheering you on. Championing you to be your best. I’m excited to thrive in life with you …

Joy robbed
Had the privilege of speaking to my Cherish women this morning about something that’s been on my heart lately — the fact that our joy can be robbed, and I’ve been feeling it especially heavily lately..Our Heavenly Father is the creator of joy, and He …
