??? Show up AF ??? “As a friend” guys ? show up AS A FRIEND. When your friends are celebrating something, or trying to get the word out about something, or asking for prayer for something, or attempting a new thing, SHOW UP for them! …
communication
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Expressing Emotions Effectively (without hurting people)
You’ve heard me say “if it’s not your news to share, then don’t share it” and with that comes another thing I believe strongly in, which is “if you wouldn’t say it TO them, don’t say it ABOUT them.” I’m as guilty as the next …
Let it be known or let it go
I had someone reach out to me the other day about a grievance they’ve been walking with the last 6+ months, involving another person. And while I’m so proud of them for reaching out to get support in navigating through this, my heart was saddened …
Use your blinker
You know when you’re driving and someone cuts you off? Yeah ? I’m sure it’s happened to each of us, and I don’t know one person who enjoys it when it’s done to them. The frustrating thing is that it honestly could be so simply …
Friendship Safety Zone
One of my favorite things to do in friendship is to offer my friends a “safe space” to get things off their chest and say what they’re really thinking (i.e. an unpolished rant of sortS), so they can stop swirling it around inside or be …
You’ve been single the whole time I’ve known you
“You’ve been single the whole time I’ve known you.” Anyone who’s known me over the last 5 years could say that. It’s not really *news*, but it hit me like a ton of bricks when he said it to my face To be honest, it really …
It’s almost time
It’s. Almost. Time. Y’all have heard me talk about my upcoming mentorship (or maybe not yet …. but you’re about to ) and I’m officially opening doors THIS WEEK! hear ye, hear ye: If you are a SINGLE LADY who’s excited to get married, and wants to …
Clashing Thoughts
PSA / FYI >>> You can… Disapprove of someone’s approach, but still applaud the outcome they created (I don’t believe in “grinding” all day every day to create business success, but I recognize that it can) Disagree with someone completely and still admire the eloquence …
Prayer for friends and BIG conversations
I have a few girlfriends having BIG conversations tonight and there’s been some concern and unsettledness stirring within them. If that’s you, or you have a BIG conversation coming up, may this prayer bring you peace >>> Heavenly Father, we thank You for who You are, how You love, …
Communication in dating
Okay. I’m about to get REAL with you about DATING!! If you’ve been *in conversations with someone and you’re just not feeling it…. that’s totally okay! But don’t be a jerk and ghost them. Take a moment a draft a simple, honest message to let …