You can tell them exactly where you want to go (i.e. having clear goals) and they will still lead you astray – having you look in every direction but forward! They are frustrating, demeaning, confusing, misleading, and ignorant. Speaking from personal experience, having your excuses …
growth

8 years ago
8 years ago I drove into San Diego with a car full of possessions, my sweet mama who joined me for my travels down the coast, and my precious cat, Cashmere š I honestly didnāt know what I was stepping into. I didnāt know the …

Thirty Nine
I was 38 just a few days ago.And then it happened.39 showed up and a new season began.It was a quiet day.Itās been an under-the-radar year.It has felt immensely ⦠subtle.A weightiness thatās *known* but not yet seen.Growth happens underground, after all, where itās not …

I once knew a girl who knew everything
I once knew a girl who knew everything. She knew what she thought.She knew who she trusted.She knew love couldnāt be bought.She knew fearing men who lusted. She knew when to run.She knew how to hide.She knew how to be fake.She knew to be snide. …

Are you willing to look foolish?
Are you willing to look foolish? āCause the thing is, you are going to – no matter what you do ???? If you go after your dreams, youāll look foolish to those who arenāt willing to go for theirs. If you donāt go after your …

It. has. been. a. WEEK!
It. has. been. a. WEEK! Just. Honestly. Do you ever feel as though youāre watching your life happen in front of you, like a movie? Like, seeing all of the EVERYTHING swirling around you⦠and then pleasantly surprised to see yourself calm, cool, and collected? …

If I do this, then……
For years I was caught in the trap of āif I invest in this program / coach / thing, then __________ in my life will change.ā And, while Iām still a HUGE believer in investing in programs / coaches / etc. to help with growth, …

A Case for Grace
Growth and Grace ??? God gave me this name back in 2016, and itās been an ever-expanding foundation of how I live my life, with grace being especially front and center for me lately. Growth wasnāt a concept I was actively aware of and seeking …

One month until my BIRTHDAY
Well well well, guess whatās coming UP?! My BIRTHDAY! #36 is right around the corner, and I have exactly one month to plan my most epic one yet! And hereās what Iāve realized about myself over the years – I used to be so judgy …

Annoyingly UNcomfortable
Ā Iām writing this while sipping a glass of white wineĀ Ā and for those who know me – they know thatās significant! For someone who has maybe 2ish drinks per year, tonight just called for one..Ā This has been an annoyingly UNcomfortable week. Like, OBNOXIOUS..But…Thank God for friends …