Bit by bit. There’s a time and a place to take a giant leap and go for it, no holds barred – but there’s also wisdom in taking it one step at a time, bit by bit, and not setting yourself up for cram-mode. Have …
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Get really good at celebrating others
I get it, friend. Deeply. You’re watching seemingly everyone else living in blessings you’ve been praying for, and experiencing miracles you’re believing for. And it’s not just one friend. It’s like a good number of them at once. It’s the job promotions. It’s the engagements …

Eulogies, epitaphs, and coffins, oh my!
I know this can be a gruesome or heavy-feeling topic, but I’d like to bring some levity to it, and highlight it from a less fatal standpoint. Let’s imagine that you were about to be introduced to a group of people. ❓ How would you …

When was the last time you were in AWE?
🤯 When was the last time you were in AWE and stayed in that moment? Maybe it was: 🌳 looking up at a massive tree swaying in the wind, or🏀 seeing an athlete perform at the top of their game, or👀 staring into the eyes …

Hands off, prayers on
It’s not lost on me how wise my sweet mama is, but there are times when something she says just absolutely strikes, and last night was one of those moments! We were talking about some miracles in motion, and how we’ve been believing for things …

If you’re a leader…
If you’re a leader and you’re waiting for someone else to go first (or do that thing, or make a move, or find a way, or….), then you’re actually not a leader. You’re a bystander. Even followers are doing something. If you’re after the title …

You will never actually understand what they’re walking through
You will never actually understand what they’re walking through. 📌 You may understand pain.📌 You may understand loss.📌 You may understand hardship.📌 You may understand disappointment. But all of these are from your own point of view and your own life experiences. You will never …

Would they know if something was off in your life?
Every once in a while, I’m tempted to just check out – not respond to anyone’s messages (texts, emails, voice mails, socials, WhatsApp, Marco Polo, GroupMe, etc.) and live in the moment, without a care in the world (for days on end). But what struck …

Are you EMPOWERING them or ENABLING them?
Are you EMPOWERING them or ENABLING them? Oooh, the line can be so blurry-seeming sometimes, because in both cases, they truly need help, and you genuinely want to help. One of the key differences though, is that they WANT help helping themselves. They may want …

Work FOR it, not against it
I’ve been studying marriage the last few years – learning what I can before I get to step into it. Not some crash course to cram for a test, but really soaking in and discovering the ins and outs, the ups the downs, the how …
